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When Eric and Janell Adjepong were dating, she asked him to cook for a dinner party she was hosting. He’d been a professional chef for years, so of course, he obliged. As they were getting ready for the event, he noticed how Janell brought her love of interior design to the event, beautifully setting the table and putting all of the finishing touches on the evening. That night, they decided to join forces and start their dinner party service, Pinch and Plate, with Janell handling the decor—like stunning tablescapes with candles and unique artifacts—and Eric serving up delicious, artful plates.

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With more than 100 parties under their belt since 2015, the Adjepongs know how to throw a memorable soiree without any drama. Read on for their tips and tricks so that you, too, can entertain effortlessly this holiday season. Plus, get tasty recipes, developed by Eric, for your next holiday menu.

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5 Tips for Hosting a Holiday Party

Keep the Decor Simple

Don’t overdo it on the decor. “I know people go on Pinterest and they see these wonderful, fabulous things, but don’t feel like you have to do all of that to have a nice dinner party,” says Janell. “Candles and flowers always work.” (Flowers are also one of the items our editors buy for a stress-free holiday season.)

Plan Ahead

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Working ahead is key. Janell recommends doing an inventory at least a week before your event. “Compare the number of guests with what you have, so if you’re short, you have time to pick up what you need.” Eric suggests finishing 80 to 90% of your cooking the day before, so you can exude confidence: “Guests can feel if the host is frazzled.”

Get Help If You Need It

Hire help if you need to, whether it’s a chef to prepare the meal or someone to clean your home. “People are usually stressed trying to do everything themselves and it’s simply not worth it,” Janell says. “And it typically results in the host not being dressed in time, burning a dish or forgetting smaller details.”

Serve a Big-Batch Cocktail

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Have a batch cocktail ready when guests arrive, like this Slow-Cooker Mulled Wine. “Put it out so they can just pour it into their own cups to keep it easy,” Eric says. For other big-batch cocktail ideas, try our Red Sangria.

Figure Out the Tunes

Don’t forget the music. “Create a playlist that extends beyond the time of the party so you don’t have to think about it—even if some guests stay after dinner is over,” says Janell.

The Menu

     Mulled Wine     Credit: Victor Protasio      Slow-Cooker Mulled Wine  View Recipe            Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette     Credit: Victor Protasio      Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette  View Recipe            Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone     Credit: Victor Protasio      Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone  View Recipe            Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks     Credit: Victor Protasio      Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks  View Recipe            Cumin Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt     Credit: Victor Protasio      Cumin-Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt  View Recipe            Malva Pudding     Credit: Victor Protasio      Malva Pudding  View Recipe   

Lenore T. Adkins is a Washington, D.C.-based food writer.

Currently a judge on Battle of the Brothers, chef Eric Adjepong is writing two cookbooks due out in fall 2022.

Janell Adjepong has limited event planning during the pandemic to her friends and family.

A man and a woman sitting on a couch Credit: Emmanuel Boakye-Appiah

A man and a woman sitting on a couch

Credit: Emmanuel Boakye-Appiah

A man and woman setting a dinning table Credit: Emmanuel Boakye-Appiah

A man and woman setting a dinning table

The mid section of a man with a knife cooking next to a sink Credit: Emmanuel Boakye-Appiah

The mid section of a man with a knife cooking next to a sink

Spiced wine in a pitcher next to a table setting Credit: Emmanuel Boakye-Appiah

Spiced wine in a pitcher next to a table setting

    Mulled Wine     Credit: Victor Protasio      Slow-Cooker Mulled Wine  View Recipe   

    Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette     Credit: Victor Protasio      Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette  View Recipe   

    Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone     Credit: Victor Protasio      Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone  View Recipe   

    Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks     Credit: Victor Protasio      Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks  View Recipe   

    Cumin Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt     Credit: Victor Protasio      Cumin-Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt  View Recipe   

    Malva Pudding     Credit: Victor Protasio      Malva Pudding  View Recipe   

  Mulled Wine     Credit: Victor Protasio      Slow-Cooker Mulled Wine  View Recipe  

 Mulled Wine     Credit: Victor Protasio   

Slow-Cooker Mulled Wine

Mulled Wine     Credit: Victor Protasio  

Mulled Wine

Credit: Victor Protasio

Mulled Wine

Slow-Cooker Mulled Wine

  Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette     Credit: Victor Protasio      Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette  View Recipe  

 Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette     Credit: Victor Protasio   

Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette

Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette     Credit: Victor Protasio  

Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette

Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette

Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette

  Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone     Credit: Victor Protasio      Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone  View Recipe  

 Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone     Credit: Victor Protasio   

Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone

Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone     Credit: Victor Protasio  

Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone

Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone

Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone

  Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks     Credit: Victor Protasio      Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks  View Recipe  

 Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks     Credit: Victor Protasio   

Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks

Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks     Credit: Victor Protasio  

Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks

Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks

Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks

  Cumin Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt     Credit: Victor Protasio      Cumin-Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt  View Recipe  

 Cumin Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt     Credit: Victor Protasio   

Cumin-Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt

Cumin Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt     Credit: Victor Protasio  

Cumin Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt

Cumin Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt

Cumin-Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt

  Malva Pudding     Credit: Victor Protasio      Malva Pudding  View Recipe  

 Malva Pudding     Credit: Victor Protasio   

Malva Pudding

Malva Pudding     Credit: Victor Protasio  

Malva Pudding

Malva Pudding

Malva Pudding

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